Dating can be fun while you're in college. You finally feel grown-up and have more adult experiences. This is usually the time that we begin our search for a lifelong mate. It can be a challenge however, to determine who you would like to spend the rest of your life with when you haven't truely found yourself yet.

College is the time to figure out what your goals are, what career you want to pursue, travel and learn about the world in general. Sometimes when we are tied down to one person in a tight committment, we choose not to explore and this may cause you to feel some resentment in the future. If you are currently in this kind of relationship, you may want to ask yourself the following questions:

1. Do I spend enough time to myself?

2. Have I visited all of the places I'd like to at this point in my life? Would my partner travel with me or have a problem if I want to go, if not?

3. Where do I want to live? These are just a few areas to comtemplate and if you are not sure about any of them, then you should take a step back and focus on you for a while.